Patrick Ngambi

October 29 , 2020

My Preferences Are Unique

Would life be different, if you believed that everything you love and enjoy is just right for you?

What would happen if you knew yourself so well you could say with confidence, “No thank you, I prefer…”

How would you look at others, if you really understood that their choices are perfect for them and not for you?

The Law of Attraction teaches us to recognize our personal preferences by noticing how things feel and asking ourselves, “Which feels better? This or that?” When we take the time to notice our feelings, we learn about ourselves in a way that leads to great personal freedom and happiness.

Before I learned about the Law of Attraction and how I attract people, situations, and opportunities in complete accord with my vibration (vibes), I tried to live by a set of standards or principles.

I remember a time when I asked my best friend and mentor if she could give me a list of these principles so I could make sure I was living the right way. I did everything I could to be the perfect man and father. I thought that by conforming to what other people expected, I would become happy too. I was NOT a happy, joyful person. I was a person in great emotional, financial, and eventually physical, pain where others were always trying to put me down and treating me unfairly.

But the Law of Attraction taught me to notice when something doesn’t feel good because that feeling of discomfort is an indicator that something is NOT good for me. Anything out of alignment with who I am and all the purposes I came to fulfill will NOT feel good.

WOW! I had been placing my hand on a hot stove and trying to feel comfortable with the pain. I’d lived with chronic financial, emotional, and physical pain for so long that I was becoming numb to it. (A third-degree burn is painless because all the nerve endings are burned away.)

One day in 2003, the truth finally dawned on me after struggling with so many issues in my life: I finally realized that only I can choose what is best for me. No one can tell me what is good for me only I can tell. And the way I tell is by noticing how everything feels, then looking for the thought, answer, idea, or thing that feels best.

“Good feels good. Bad feels bad.” ~ Abraham-Hicks

Knowing and honoring my personal preferences causes me to fulfill ALL my life purposes naturally. Everything I set out to do during this lifetime is already programmed within me. The way I ‘read the program’ is to notice what brings me great joy and follow that lead. In fact, this is the shortest and easiest way to find fulfillment. Before I learned about the Law of Attraction, I felt like I had lost 30 years of my life by trying to endure a poor lifestyle full of mistakes and bad choices. But within 17 years (2001 – 2018) of applying the Law of Attraction in the way described in this article, I felt caught up in life. About 6 months ago, I had a profound idea of creating this life-changing program called Work Hard & Feel Good:

“Today, I am exactly where I expected to be.

Launching our eCommerce site with amazing eBooks and other good stuff.

” That is a GREAT feeling as you can imagine”

Here is the point: If I have managed to positively change my life, you can do it too and enjoy a great life.

Just start today by thinking differently make decisions that are in line with your new lifestyle!


Now I tell my students and clients: “Your personal preferences are as unique to you as your fingerprints. Only you can do certain things in this life and your preferences are there to guide you into actually living life in the most joyfully satisfying way!”

What about you? Are you seeing yourself in this light? Have you wondered why you don’t fit in with the crowd? Are you ready to accept yourself and your preferences as being right for YOU?

     © Work Hard & Feel Good ©


Bad feels bad, Good feels good, Life preferences, Motivation, The Law Of Attraction

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